This is Not a Book About Benedict Cumberbatch - Tabitha Carvan

⭐ 10.0/10

(Originally written by Magdalene)

There is a lot about Benedict Cumberbatch in this book, but I didn't mind. This book is partly a memoir about how the author, a normal, Australian wife and mother of two, found herself unexpectedly and inexplicably becoming obsessed with Benedict Cumberbatch. She finds herself scrolling pictures of him for hours, reading fanfiction, and connecting with fellow Cumberbitches of all ages, confused and uncomfortable about who she has become. But this is just a jumping off point for her to discuss not only people who are obsessed with Benedict Cumberbatch, but just people loving things in general. A focus is on girls and women loving things, and how the world looks down on fangirls, fanfiction readers/writers, and women pursuing interests, and has done throughout history. And it's also about owning up to what you love and embracing it, and letting yourself find joy in just liking something.

I can relate to the author a lot, because although I've never loved one singular person with the fervour she has, I've gone through many an obsession and intense hobby, and had lots of weird feelings about it. I've also looked down on girls who love things in a way that makes me uncomfortable. So I learned and reflected a lot, but also the author is just really funny, and I had a great time reading this book. It's a great blend of social commentary and memoir, and easy to read for anyone. One of my favourite books I've read so far this year.